Communication

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert, writes… …

I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m afraid my time has passed.

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

Consider the Universe is a gigantic intention fulfillment machine. When you ask, and it’s not coming, you have a dominant belief or vibration about it being difficult. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How do I bring in the certainty in receiving? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. How do you work on the positive expectancy, the believing, knowing, the certainty? One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Practice frequently. It takes repetition to learn a new habit.

Play with the energy of make believe and feel it as real. How will you feel when… … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you hold hands and tell jokes … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your expectation frequency into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

I was wrecked when my ex left. It came as a shock and I was useless for a while.

I found myself weeping for no reason and my working life was becoming somewhat of an embarrassment.

I found myself regularly texting and phoning her but it was getting me nowhere. In fact it was doing the complete opposite and making it worse.

I look back now and I realise it was totally the wrong thing to do. I should have been doing the exact opposite.

I got hold of a step by step system that claimed it would get my wife back. To say I was sceptical was an understatement.

I decided to give the system a go, I had little to lose here. I took it’s advice and ceased all contact with my ex.

As the system advised, I spent some time in putting myself in a better emotional state. I started to feel better almost immediately.

The system had an eye opening bonus section about psychological mind games. We rarely know but we are psychologically manipulated all the time.

This is the kind of stuff I like. Although to be honest I was unaware of how poweful these psychological tactics are.

We are manipulated by these tricks on a daily basis. Mostly advertising but also our government is quite expert with these tricks.

Over many years our government has manipulated us into a position that suits them just fine.

They are still at it and they will ultimately get us into a position where we give over the majority of our salary in tax, and give it happily.

The psychological steps in the system worked on a similar line. Get my ex back by getting her to agree to small things and moving up to slightly bigger things all the time.

To start off with a small step of agreeing to meet. When she’s comfortable with this then move up to having a coffee together.

Then move up to having lunch a few times. All the time only increasing the steps bit by bit so she gets comfortable with them.

Next it’s a meal out in a restaurant and this nicely moves up to a full night out. The next step is getting her to stay over after the night out.

The final step for me was after she was comfortable in staying over it would be logical for her to move back in. Total time taken here was about 6 or 7 weeks.

If this is something you think you’d like to try to get your ex back then you should give it a go. It works and it will continue to work. Get a better review at my site.

The article title makes a bold claim about getting my wife back but is it true?

Because for me it worked as advertised, I got my wife back, so in my experience it’s probably the best system in the world.

When I was going through a split I discovered this system online that claimed it could get my wife back with a step by step method.

There were a lot of systems and methods claiming exactly the same, that they could get my wife back.

Funnily the combined cost of them all was enough to actually purchase a new mail order bride…tempting!

In the end I couldn’t decide between two similar systems so I bought both. One was good one was far from good.

The system that turned out the best had a section on how to use psychological tactics to our advantage. How we are part of these psychological tactics almost every day.

Advertisers, governments, our employers and even our friends and relatives use it without us really realising.

A quick example is a buddy is trying to get you to go for a run or something. You say no and they hit you with a bit of reverse psychology. Something like “well, if your body isn’t up to it that’s ok”. How often do you puff your chest out and say “let’s go!”

We can get our ex to see it from our point of view with these manipulative tactics. Although they are more gentle pushes than manipulation, which sounds nasty.

Even tactics that are likely to raise a few eyebrows come in handy when trying to get our ex back.

My first step of the system was to get my wife to be curious enough that she would pick up the phone and call me.

The system instructed me to leave a voicemail and in the message tell her how much I have going on right now and to thank her for what shes done for me.

You don’t go into any details but the curiosity factor will almost guarantee she will get back on the phone to you.

You can be sure that when she calls she still has some feelings towards you.

If she didn’t feel anything at all she would not call back. The opposite to love is indifference, not caring at all. If she calls, it’s a great sign.

Once you’ve gotten over this hurdle you can then put other little tricks and tactics into play. Total time it took me to get her back was about 6 or 7 weeks. I bet you could beat that easy!

The same tactic I used to get my wife back got you to read past the article title.

The tactic in question is simple curiosity. We are all curious to a certain extent and we can’t help it.

To help me get my wife back I used the power of curiosity. Psychological curiosity tricks started off the whole system that I used.

I left a strange message for my ex, this was step one of the system, that had her curious enough to get back on the phone to me.

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All humans seem to function on the same psychological levels, we get curious and we seem to respond to the same stuff.

Due to the way we all work it allows us to manipulate our ex into thinking on the same lines as us.

There is a great bonus section in the system I used. A whole collection of psychological moves and tricks. I used these tactics a lot.

It was after the first call from my ex that I stepped up the psychological games.

I got her to take small steps at a time. Steps that she felt in control of.

I got her to have coffee with me a few times until she felt quite comfortable with the situation.

I moved on to taking her out for lunch occasionally. She again got comfortable with that.

Next was a meal out at night a few times. Again she felt comfortable with the little increases.

Next we moved onto a proper date and repeated this until she felt perfectly safe.

We next moved on to her occasionally staying over at mine after a night out. Keeping this up until it got routine for her.

Can you see where all these small steps are going? After getting comfortable with staying over at mine, it’s no big deal for her to move back in.

It all took me no more than about 6 weeks to get my wife back. Every little jump was ok as she was comfortable with the previous level. Never did she feel I was pressuring her.

Going through a breakup can be such an emotional wrenching time. I know only too well how bad it can be.

You may not realise it but even if your relationship looks dead and buried, it may well be saved.

Most people just give up, move on and try to make the best of a bad situation.

If you still feel anything for your ex you should be making the decision to fight for the relationship.

There is a lot of material out there on the net that has been solely written for this exact situation.

Others who have successfully reversed a split & gotten their ex back have put their ideas down on paper

A few people have actually created foolproof step by step systems and have made them available to us.

I would never have believed it but these system have been proven to work and the particular one that I used has reunited over 12,000 people.

These systems work repeatedly because they follow a pattern and they use the fact that we all work on the same psychological levels.

Part of one of the steps I used involved a psychological tactic to get my wife to phone me without me asking her.

I followed the system and managed to do this by leaving her a message to say thanks and to say how good I was doing.

This got her very curious on two levels. Why would I thank her and what was I up to to be having so much fun.

Her curiosity was such that she just had to call me back. Just as the system said she would.

I was pretty confident after this call that things would work out. The system said that if she calls she still has feelings.

As indifference is the opposite of love, then she wouldn’t bother calling if she didn’t feel anything.

She did call, so clearly she did have feelings. And as it turned out they were as strong as ever as our relationship is stronger now than before.

I know that “off the shelf” systems do work cause I used one to get my wife back.

I’m sure right about now you are feeling a bit messed up. In fact that’s probably a huge understatement if you’re anything like me.

When my wife left I was totally useless. We’d been together for 6 years and it came as a shock when she decided to leave.

I’m sure like me, you thought everything was going ok. I was clearly way out on that particular one.

I made a decision to get her back and this time make it work. I wouldn’t take her for granted and I wouldn’t make any mistakes.

I tried a few calls and texts and sounded sheepish on the phone but that just made her more distanced.

As it was making things clearly worse I stopped contact for a week or two.

I was at a loss at this point, not having a clue what to do next.

I thought the only course of action was counselling, but I thought the last thing she would do was to come along with me.

It was at this point I was getting rid of my daily dose of spam from my inbox when something struck me.

The stuff the spammers try to sell us is fairly unbelievable at times.

Not to delve too deep into the spam but I thought if there’s stuff like that on the net there may be stuff to help me get my ex wife back.

After loads of searching through crap I settled on 2 systems at about 40 bucks apiece that promised to get my wife back.

I thought one was really a let down but the other had a great section on psychological tactics, this got my interest. Even though it had a bit too much padding for my liking.

I won’t go too deep into it but I simply knew that she was coming back after I put step one into action. A simply unbelievable tactic.

The system told me to call her, leave a message but not to ask her to call back. Simply say that we might have been right to split and thank her and mention I had a lot going on right now.

What this message served to do was arouse her curiosity. And we know what they say about curiosity and cats? Well it works just as well with wives, ex wifes to be more precise.

She called me the next day interested to see how I was doing and what was going on in my life. She was certainly curious.

I knew at this point she was still interested, and I knew she would be back before long. I put the rest of the system into play and within a month or two she was back.

I could have managed it in a shorter time but I knew it would happen so I played it out slow and steady. I held all the cards though she didn’t realise, and it was so easy to get my wife back it was unbelievable.

What is a proven, guaranteed and surefire system? In my opinion it’s one that actually does work. In my case it did work, I got my wife back

When I was going through a break up, I discovered a simple to follow system that I could easily put into action.

After about six or seven weeks we were together again. Things are better now than they ever were.

That’s the short version, the reality of it was it took a bit of work on my part. It’ll take a bit of work on your part too, if you really want your ex back.

In the system I used there was a neat psychological tactics section. With the aim being to get her doing what I wanted.

The first step was to leave her some sort of message that would make her call me back without me asking her to. And it worked like magic.

Before the day was up she was back on the phone to me and I never once asked her to in the message I left.

Next was a few tricks involving her favorite stuff. If she telephoned I would have her fav song on in the background.

This psychologically linked me to her fav song. So she couldn’t really think of the song without thinking of me.

When she came over to mine I had the smell of her favourite food lingering in the air. This again created a bond between the food and me.

Next step was to get her to have a coffee with me. A very innocent request and one that wasn’t hard to get her to say yes to.

Having coffee was a very small step and the next very small step was her having lunch with me. No biggy going from coffee to lunch, right?

She was now comfortable with lunch it was an easy leap to ask her on a proper date.

A few dates under our belts and it wasn’t a big deal for her to stay over at mine occasionally.

After regular stay overs she was comfortable enough to feel it might be time to move back in and give it another go.

Notice how every small step led to something just a little bigger in her eyes? An easy move from step to step. But she would never go from coffee to moving back in.

That was how I went from being emotionally wrecked to getting what I desired (my wife back) in just over 6 short weeks. It’s an easy system to follow. And if you are prepared to work at it a bit, you will get what you desire.

You need a step by step system to get your ex back. One that is virtually foolproof.

A system that has worked countless times before and will work countless times again.

It’s fairly difficult to believe that these systems exist, yet they do and are all over the net.

There’s many about but not all of them are any good, most are garbage. Common sense advice that school kids could easily teach.

There are a few that are worth their wieght in gold. Systems that have been put together by people who have been where you are before.

Systems that work are easy to follow, step by step methods that will do what so claim to do. Put together by someone who has used each step successfully.

I successfully used one of these systems to get my wife back, and I’m certain you could too.

The whole system isn’t just a psychology class, but in my view the best bits are.

We all respond to very similar psychological triggers. It’s the way we are programmed, we can’t help it.

Any sports car advert nearly always has a hot looking lady either in, or draped over the car. This creates a psychological link in our minds between that car and hot women.

Similar tactics can be used to help get your wife back. When she phones have her fav music in the background so she can hear it.

You can try to create the smell of her fav dish if she ever comes round to yours. These psychological links have her picturing you when she smells that food or hears that music.

Another trick is to leave her a message that doesn’t ask her to call you back but raises her curiosity levels that she just has to return the call.

If you can do it this way she will believe it was her that called you first, and not just replying to your message.

Some would say the little known techniques I used to get her backget my wife back are a little underhand. But not me.

If you are going through a split you have a couple of choices. Walk away for good or decide to make plans to get her back.

If you’ve taken the decision to move on you gotta ask yourself if it’s really the choice you want?

A lot of relationships, even ones that look dead and buried, can be rescued with a bit of effort and the right plan.

I used an off the shelf – get your ex back – system that I found on the net. Yes believe it or not there is such a thing. I know I was mega sceptical.

I made a decision to try and get my wife back. I didn’t see I had anything to lose. She was already gone so it was worth a go.

In the system I bought and used there was an extra section on psychology and psychological triggers that can be used on people to get them to do things we would like.

It wasn’t anything heavy duty or wrong, it was simply the use of words and phrases and other little tricks that make us all respond to in a certain way. Advertisers use these things all the time.

In fact you couldn’t even hypnotise someone to do something that their concsous mind would disagree with. So these psychological mind games are pretty safe to use.

I used a few specific psychological moves in the overall system that I used to get her back.

One trick was to leave a message on her answer machine that included info that would make her curious. The idea was to get her to call back out of curiosity without actually asking her to call back.

She called a few times after that and always I had her favorite tune playing in the background. This further linked me to her fav tune.

After that it was one small step after another. Coffee, a casual date, a meal out somewhere, all these small steps led up to another slightly bigger one.

And these steps finally resulted in her moving back in. But by the time we were at this point the last big step didn’t seem all that big to her as she had been – programmed – by all the smaller steps.

If you’ve just been dumped make yourself a priomise to get your wife back, or even your girlfriend back.

Even the nastiest of breakups can be reversed, and I know from experience about that one.

Getting your wife or girl back won’t be easy, but it won’t be too difficult either as it all rests on using the correct system

Systems allways work because they’ve been proven over time by lotts of trial and error, and they get better as people improve them with other good bits.

Luckily for you that you could have your hands on a successful system to get your ex back within roughly 5 or so clicks from here.

Don’t believe me? Well the system I used when I was in your shoes has so far reuinited about 12 thousand people.

A successful sytsem will hold your hand from step 1 right through to the last step, which should be your ex moving back in.

I know it sounds hard to believe but people in general all follow the same sets of rules in our everyday lives.

One example is tv advertising, or any advertising really. It works because we have these subconcious rules we all follow.

All our minds work in a similar fashion. We can be psychologicaly pushed into doing something we don’t even know we are doing.

We all think we make our own choices in life but this can be far from the reality.

These same psychological techniques can help you get your ex in the position you want, and that’s back with you.

You can help get your wife back quicker using these mind games and then make the relationship even stronger.

It took me about 6 to 8 weeks to get my wife back when we split. I used the psychologic methods in the system and she thinks she made the running. Cool eh?